Rebuilding is written from the perspective of two therapists, each trained in helping couples recover and rebuild after betrayal.

Our book is different because it offers insight and support for both partners. In each chapter, you’ll hear the voice of Nan Tilbury, whose training and experience focus on working with those who have broken trust, alongside the voice of Nichole Aiken, who specializes in supporting partners who have been betrayed.

Instead of reading two separate books from different sources—an often confusing and fragmented experience—this one book speaks to each member of the couple individually, as well as the couple as a whole. It offers a shared language and a balanced path forward, no matter which side of the betrayal you’re on.

This book will walk you from the raw pain of discovery to a place where you can stand on your own two feet—grounded, honest, and aligned with your integrity. Along the way, we’ll help you build skills, understanding, and insight to heal not just your relationship, but yourself.